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08-27-02 11:55 AM  
rubbernecker I've been lurking on this controversy for some time without posting anything, so I don't have any personal attachments to either side (or I should say to any side, since there are several). As a detached but facinated observer, here are some of my thoughts written down for the first time and all my humble opinions:

1. KUH is driven by an almost pathological need for status, and that's what the BFC gave him. He desperately wants people to think of him as better than anyone else -- not a mere mortal but an angel, and king of the angels at that. I think he needs people to acknowledge he's better because that's how he thinks of himself. That's why he lies (9/11 stuff) and that's why he does kind things as well, in service of his selfish objective.

2. When it comes to being a good person, the proof is in the pudding. A kind person doesn't tell lies about the most traumatic event to hit this country in decades so he will look better. A kind person doesn't bully low-wage service personnel just so he (a comparatively wealthy animal doctor) can get benefits to which he is not entitled, also known as stealing. A kind person doesn't cause a scene with security personnel at WDW -- which I'm sure mortified his family -- and delude himself into thinking he is a victim fighting back. And a kind person doesn't say cruel things even when under attack.

3. YKW2 is by far the worst character in this whole thing. His actions are textbook examples of propaganda ("this is online terrorism"), Orwellian facism (changing posts, banning people from responding and taunting them for not doing so), cult establishment ("we angels must close our circle and exclude the haters"), and mind control ("you're afraid now, aren't you?"). He is utterly reprehensible. If there is any justice in the universe, his pathetic little career will be ruined by his inexcusable actions.

4. The facts of this situation have gotten buried under so many layers of spin that it's easy to forget that (with the exception of unproven death threats) nobody did anything wrong in a legal sense. It's not illegal to game Disney's corporate policies. It's not illegal to post negative reviews of books without actual malice (which is almost impossible to prove). It's not illegal to pass along rumors, especially rumors that are very close to the truth with only minor details misreported. You can't sue for $10 million for the equivalent of having your business picketed, especially when it is a money-losing business in the first place.

5. Therefore everything currently going on with their evidence collection is nothing more than an effort to save face. Their vague hints about invading computers, working with law enforcement, haters running scared and destroying evidence, and payouts to come are nothing more than an effort to save face and delude themselves into thinking they are in control.

6. I think YKW herself is less to blame, because she strikes me as a genuine fruitcake rather than a cynical manipulator like YKW2. When she said that her little message board had healed the sick, combined with her pre-Disney writing career, I decided she is too detached from reality to be held fully accountable. I think she is a victim as much as some of the other people here.

Again, these are just my opinions. Since I'm speaking up for the first time, I'd be curious to see what you all think.
08-27-02 12:47 PM  
Kim H Here's what I think...you don't know KUH, and to start a topic like this, is asking for people to argue with you.
kim
08-27-02 12:51 PM  
Steve Russo Nice summary and I agree with most of what you said. My own additions:
1. It was never about breakfast (to all those who said "it's only a breakfast").
2. Can't remember the first salvo but, I do remember my first visit to the Pit when the first post I read was "Where are the scum now?" from Loribell.
3. Agreed that YKW2 is the worst. Genii is a close second (unless they're the same person...has anyone seen them in the same room?).
4. YKW a "fruitcake"? Could be. You cited the "healing the sick" quote and that does feed that fire. I don't know her so I'll withhold judgement.
5. Other than YKW2/Genii, the only real sore spot with me was the continual use of the word "haters" - from the principles and some RCH members. I don't recall hating anything or anyone.
6. Regarding KUH... I exchanged several emails with him during the height of the debate. He wanted to explain himself and felt I offered a somewhat sane view. I promised I would never post his comments and I'll stick to that. He is certainly a complex personality. I might tend to agree with your assessment - he certainly enjoyed the praise but, shoot, who wouldn't. He did indicate to me that he had planned to give up his BC role (it was taking too much of his time) and he did do that.
08-27-02 01:03 PM  
Lunarlady I have to mostly agree with rubbernecker. I, also, wasn't involved with BC or any of that and became aware of it only when it spilled over to the DIS earlier this year.

Once this 'argument' was removed from the DIS, I forgot all about it until it spilled over again earlier this month. After that I just HAD to find out what all the fuss was about and began researching. (Research is my life after all)

I'm unaware of any previous name-calling and hate-mongering. I've seen few posts that I would deem 'unreasonable'. (However, I have an ability to brush off remarks that others would take to heart, so my opinion may be skewed in that respect) People bicker and call each other names. I would have thought this would have been grown out of by the 4th grade, but my experience on the internet has shown this not to be the case.

However, name-calling and hate-mongering aside, I DO have a huge problem with using deception to gain a 'greater good'. IE: 'greater good' meaning reservations for people with daughters who want to meet Cinderella.

What makes me a little angry is when a group of people storm the phone lines and tie up operators at exactly 6:59am to further their 'cause' every day. This may inhibit total strangers who call before work and just get put on hold and finally give up after 15 minutes because they can't afford the phone bill. It affects people who may not even be connected to the internet or aware of the group tactics that the BC is espousing and encouraging.

I think rubbernecker is also right when it comes to advertising the BC's 'angelic' status. True angels do not seek adulation or recognition. True angels simply do their good works and move on to help others. They don't spout on a public BB things like "Hey! I've got a new system that works better than the old and, for obvious reasons, I can't tell you about it here. Email me".

To me, that's not angelic. That's deception. I abhor deception.

As always, JMO.
08-27-02 01:04 PM  
angie henry I have to agree with Kim. Disagreeing is different than starting off an argument in a way that seems to be intentionally inflamatory.


quote:
Kim H wrote:
Here's what I think...you don't know KUH, and to start a topic like this, is asking for people to argue with you.
kim

08-27-02 01:08 PM  
Robey The following is my humble opinion.

Very good assessment!Although I would add the following:

YKW2- He is probably among other things~ a psychopathic control freak.

YKW- I would add that she exhibits signs of typical emotional abuse~ and in that sense only~ she may very well be, “a victim as much as some of the other people here.” In other words, the mind control attempts exhibited by YKW2 is not limited to “the haters”.

Just what is emotional abuse? It is the ongoing emotional environment created by your abuser for the purposes of control. http://www.myndtalk.org/htm/abuse.htm

Just my opinion.

Robey



quote:
rubbernecker wrote:
I've been lurking on this controversy for some time without posting anything, so I don't have any personal attachments to either side (or I should say to any side, since there are several). As a detached but facinated observer, here are some of my thoughts written down for the first time and all my humble opinions:

1. KUH is driven by an almost pathological need for status, and that's what the BFC gave him. He desperately wants people to think of him as better than anyone else -- not a mere mortal but an angel, and king of the angels at that. I think he needs people to acknowledge he's better because that's how he thinks of himself. That's why he lies (9/11 stuff) and that's why he does kind things as well, in service of his selfish objective.

2. When it comes to being a good person, the proof is in the pudding. A kind person doesn't tell lies about the most traumatic event to hit this country in decades so he will look better. A kind person doesn't bully low-wage service personnel just so he (a comparatively wealthy animal doctor) can get benefits to which he is not entitled, also known as stealing. A kind person doesn't cause a scene with security personnel at WDW -- which I'm sure mortified his family -- and delude himself into thinking he is a victim fighting back. And a kind person doesn't say cruel things even when under attack.

3. YKW2 is by far the worst character in this whole thing. His actions are textbook examples of propaganda ("this is online terrorism"), Orwellian facism (changing posts, banning people from responding and taunting them for not doing so), cult establishment ("we angels must close our circle and exclude the haters"), and mind control ("you're afraid now, aren't you?"). He is utterly reprehensible. If there is any justice in the universe, his pathetic little career will be ruined by his inexcusable actions.

4. The facts of this situation have gotten buried under so many layers of spin that it's easy to forget that (with the exception of unproven death threats) nobody did anything wrong in a legal sense. It's not illegal to game Disney's corporate policies. It's not illegal to post negative reviews of books without actual malice (which is almost impossible to prove). It's not illegal to pass along rumors, especially rumors that are very close to the truth with only minor details misreported. You can't sue for $10 million for the equivalent of having your business picketed, especially when it is a money-losing business in the first place.

5. Therefore everything currently going on with their evidence collection is nothing more than an effort to save face. Their vague hints about invading computers, working with law enforcement, haters running scared and destroying evidence, and payouts to come are nothing more than an effort to save face and delude themselves into thinking they are in control.

6. I think YKW herself is less to blame, because she strikes me as a genuine fruitcake rather than a cynical manipulator like YKW2. When she said that her little message board had healed the sick, combined with her pre-Disney writing career, I decided she is too detached from reality to be held fully accountable. I think she is a victim as much as some of the other people here.

Again, these are just my opinions. Since I'm speaking up for the first time, I'd be curious to see what you all think.

08-27-02 01:18 PM  
Robey Angie,

I think the keyword here is "argument".
I really don't think what rubberneck said is an argument. I think it is a well thought out opinion based on known fact. Nor do I think it is inflammatory. There were no accusations, just opinions. That's ok. If you have a different opinion, that's great! Please share. We really do want to hear it.

quote:
angie henry wrote:
I have to agree with Kim. Disagreeing is different than starting off an argument in a way that seems to be intentionally inflamatory.




08-27-02 01:30 PM  
Steve Russo Robey wrote:
"I think the keyword here is "argument".
I really don't think what rubberneck said is an argument. I think it is a well thought out opinion based on known fact. Nor do I think it is inflammatory. There were no accusations, just opinions. That's ok. If you have a different opinion, that's great! Please share. We really do want to hear it."

Agreed. I was accused of having a "silver tongue" and "baiting" in the Dungeon when all I really did was express opinions (against the BC tactics) and ask supporters to explain theirs. I never argued, just debated. The "inflammations" started when it digressed to name calling.

If this board is to succeed, it has to allow a free exchange of ideas and opinions - and not digress to argument and name-calling.
08-27-02 01:33 PM  
Coastalwader I'm going to lock this thread for a bit and open up a discussion in reference to it. Please check it out.
08-27-02 05:43 PM  
Kim H I would just like to say, that I disagree with rubbernecker's opinions of KUH, and for what it is worth, I did see the death threat, it was posted on another site, and pulled the same day. What that person said was bizarre and scary.
kim
08-27-02 05:47 PM  
rubbernecker Thanks to CostalWader and everyone who made such excellent input and unlocked the thread. I'd like to apologize again for the comments I made that were over the top and assure you I will keep it civil while calling them like I see them.

I'm very disturbed by today's Damages Report #2 statement by YKW, which sounds more like it was written by YKW2. She complains that the haters are trying to scare people into silence, but isn't she continuing to do the same? Mentioning "law enforcement officials, prosecutors, and plantiffs" and "big surprises in store" and "he people who hurt you are very, very frightened."

It sickens me that she (or YKW2) would use this kind of propaganda tactic. It needs to be called for what it is.
08-27-02 05:58 PM  
Crank
quote:
Kim H wrote:
I would just like to say, that I disagree with rubbernecker's opinions of KUH, and for what it is worth, I did see the death threat, it was posted on another site, and pulled the same day. What that person said was bizarre and scary.
kim



Kim, could you give us a brief synopsis of the death threat please?
08-27-02 06:08 PM  
Lunarlady
quote:
rubbernecker wrote:"the people who hurt you are very, very frightened."

It sickens me that she (or YKW2) would use this kind of propaganda tactic. It needs to be called for what it is.

I love to tear apart words and inflictions, find the double-meaning and review whether or not they can be considered 'control tactics'.

When I saw this particular sentence in reading today's (or maybe yesterday's) "missile to the people", I thought back on what was considered 'bullying' tactics in my research. I also remembered lessons my parents taught me.

Bullies take after weaker people than themselves because they know they are guaranteed a win. Hence, this line "...the people who hurt you are very, very frightened" may be considered a red flag to someone who sees a 'frightened' person and wishes to go after that person. A control tactic designed to influence the people that don't recognize it for what it is.

But this makes them just as bad as the "attackers" and "terrorists" that affected them as well. It also ties into this simplistic need to do damage or make their 'enemy' feel as badly as they felt. Eye for an eye and all that rot. They haven't risen above the need for revenge yet.

But in my youth my parents taught us that hate is merely fear. Fear of black people. Fear of Vietnamese. Fear of Hispanics. Fear of the unknown. They would tell us that it's not honorable to go after a group that's very, very frightened because they have to live with that fear and we don't.

I think this teaching was meant to curb us from becoming bullies. I know if someone told me that the person I was arguing with was already frightened by someone like me, it would make me think twice about arguing with them any further. I do not need to propagate their fear of me, hence I would either attempt to educate them to relieve that fear, so I would simply choose to not let them into my circle anymore.

Just a few thoughts and, as always, JMO.
08-27-02 06:19 PM  
Kim H Crank, I can't give a description of what was in the threat. I just wanted to point out that there was indeed a death threat made, it seemed as if many people are thinking it was made up. I only mentioned it today after asking KUH's permission.
kim
08-27-02 06:20 PM  
judy
quote:
Mentioning "law enforcement officials, prosecutors, and plantiffs" and "big surprises in store" and "he people who hurt you are very, very frightened."

It sickens me that she (or YKW2) would use this kind of propaganda tactic. It needs to be called for what it is.



OK - MAYBE she's right about "the people who hurt you are very, very frightened."
Maybe it's a matter of defining WHO it was that did the hurting.
08-27-02 06:24 PM  
judy
quote:
Kim H wrote:
I would just like to say, that I disagree with rubbernecker's opinions of KUH, and for what it is worth, I did see the death threat, it was posted on another site, and pulled the same day. What that person said was bizarre and scary.
kim



Ok - I believe you. Until now, I doubted the existence of a death threat, because nobody but KUH, YKW2, and YKW had mentioned it.
But, I think it's important that nobody HERE made that threat, or agrees with that sort of tactic. It's not the way to win an argument.
It still doesn't make sense to me that the RCH CLOSED because someone made a threat on another site.
08-28-02 12:27 AM  
OhMickeyYoureSoFine
quote:
judy wrote:
But, I think it's important that nobody HERE made that threat, or agrees with that sort of tactic. It's not the way to win an argument.



I admire your position, but it sounds like wishful thinking when you project your position on every other person in this forum. The truth is that you do not have psychic powers to know whether it was a person here who made the threat, or whether anyone here agrees with that sort of tactic. With this forum being a nexus for those seeking to demonize and trash KUH, it is actually not a big stretch to suspect that the person who made the death threat reads this very forum. I think it is safe to say that the motivation for this act developed on the Internet. It is also safe to say that this forum has served to amplify and dwell on anger at KUH.

If you scroll down in this very outback forum, you can see a thread titled, "So where Can I Kick some YKW2 Ass?", including a cheering fellow respondant and no opposition from moderators. Does this thread title sounds like a threat on another key personality in the clubhouse, this time YKW2? So are you folks going to do anything about it? Or is the mentality that YKW2 is "fair game" and all manner of attacks are valid, even implied threats?
08-28-02 12:37 AM  
Carla0030 Oh Mickey, this really isn't a debate forum. In order to debate there must be an opposing position. Look down the list and read the messages therein, there is no opposing views. I can almost imagine I'm reading on RADP.

There would be ONE post with an opposing position. Apparently, someone posted anonymously on Common Ground before the site moved to this website in support of YKW, or YKW2, or BC. I'm not sure because it was deleted or rolled off that board pretty quickly and it was determined here that it was someone trying to stir the pot or some such phrase and therefore not reposted.

08-28-02 12:50 AM  
judy
quote:
Carla0030 wrote:
Oh Mickey, this really isn't a debate forum. In order to debate there must be an opposing position. Look down the list and read the messages therein, there is no opposing views. I can almost imagine I'm reading on RADP.

There would be ONE post with an opposing position. Apparently, someone posted anonymously on Common Ground before the site moved to this website in support of YKW, or YKW2, or BC. I'm not sure because it was deleted or rolled off that board pretty quickly and it was determined here that it was someone trying to stir the pot or some such phrase and therefore not reposted.




Carla - If you have an opposing viewpoint, please let us know. All of us here are talking about our own experiences. If yours are different, I can appreciate that. You ARE allowed to give your opinion.
We moved from the previos forum because only a certain number of pots could be displayed. Because of the volume of posts, some "dropped off" the bottom of the page. The moderators aren't going to choose certain posts to put back on the top - that wouldn't be fair to others. None of MY witty, insightful posts were re-posted after dropping off, why should anyone else's be?
If there is a view that YOU think needs to be presented - OK - present it! You're not going to be censored. As long as you're not calling other people names, or swearing , your posts are not going to be deleted because of content. - hey TRY it!
08-28-02 12:57 AM  
judy
quote:
OhMickeyYoureSoFine wrote:


I admire your position, but it sounds like wishful thinking when you project your position on every other person in this forum. The truth is that you do not have psychic powers to know whether it was a person here who made the threat, or whether anyone here agrees with that sort of tactic. With this forum being a nexus for those seeking to demonize and trash KUH, it is actually not a big stretch to suspect that the person who made the death threat reads this very forum. I think it is safe to say that the motivation for this act developed on the Internet. It is also safe to say that this forum has served to amplify and dwell on anger at KUH.

If you scroll down in this very outback forum, you can see a thread titled, "So where Can I Kick some YKW2 Ass?", including a cheering fellow respondant and no opposition from moderators. Does this thread title sounds like a threat on another key personality in the clubhouse, this time YKW2? So are you folks going to do anything about it? Or is the mentality that YKW2 is "fair game" and all manner of attacks are valid, even implied threats?



Ok you're right about the first point - I mean nobody posting here agrees with or makes, death threats. Of course, anyone can be reading, and they can hold all sorts of ideas and opinions that I dont agree with. THIS forum is not about bashing KUH, or about making death threats.
As to the subject about "kicking YKW2 ass" - that's not even CLOSE to a death threat!
08-28-02 12:58 AM  
Carla0030 Judy, thanks for the encouragement, but really I'm not interested in opening up myself to the masses here. Let's see - no namecalling hmmmm? I've been called a 'stepford host' (no, not directly by name), then told if I weren't one I wouldn't be offended, YKW2 has been called a dick and I cannot count how many times I've read the 'implication' that KUH is a liar or perhaps a wimp or some such because he happened to take a death threat seriously. My opinion is that I wanted a place free from the continuing saga and staff bashing. How is one person's need to 'get it out' going to bring people together? I simply pointed out that this isn't a debate.
08-28-02 01:10 AM  
judy
quote:
Carla0030 wrote:
Judy, thanks for the encouragement, but really I'm not interested in opening up myself to the masses here. Let's see - no namecalling hmmmm? I've been called a 'stepford host' (no, not directly by name), then told if I weren't one I wouldn't be offended, YKW2 has been called a dick and I cannot count how many times I've read the 'implication' that KUH is a liar or perhaps a wimp or some such because he happened to take a death threat seriously. My opinion is that I wanted a place free from the continuing saga and staff bashing. How is one person's need to 'get it out' going to bring people together? I simply pointed out that this isn't a debate.



OK - go back then, to the main board here, and see what all the other "rooms" are about. people are enjoying each other's comments and having fun getting o know one another. The "out back" is the place for any controversy, in order to keep it off the other rooms. People who want to read it, or participate, can. Think of it as our "dungeon."
I don't undestand your point about a debate forum. If you've got an opinion, state it. If you dont want to, Then what is the point of saying that only one point of view is offered here?
I didn't see anyone call you a name. I don't know who was being referred to as "stepford hosts." And IMPLYING that KUH lied is not name-calling. I was simply that everyone was told there was a death threat, yet until someone spoke up, nobody had SEEN any evidence. Do I think the people running RCH lie? YES - I know they do, because they have lied about me. that's not oly my opinion, it's my experience. other people here are saying they have had similar experiences.
AND, some people have also said nice things about KUH and about YKW. And they haven't been attacked for it.
08-28-02 08:02 AM  
discernment OK, I for one believe that KUH got a death threat. KimH has said she has seen it. I do not think KUH is a wimp or a liar. I find it deplorable that some wacko would take this to an extreme.

The Death Threat thread was discussing the context of the threat since KimH is, understandable, not at liberty to discuss the specifics of the threat. I think the whole matter of the Death threat would subside if we could actually see what was said in that post on another message board. When people do not have all the facts, people tend to speculate. That is why Carla you see people, not me, have claimed that KUH may have over reacted. I do not recall anyone saying KUH was a wimp in that thread. KUH responded in the manner he felt was appropriate. We may all have dealt with that in the same way.

Carla, i do hope you stick around. We can all learn from each other and come to a mutual respect even though we may not see eye to eye.
08-28-02 09:22 AM  
Carla0030 Discernment, can I just ask why you (you cannot answer for the rest I know) feel if you could SEE the death threat that the argument would stop? Not to be a snot or anything but just who the heck are you? Why is it not enough that KUH and the authorities took it seriously? I cannot remember who I've told what to so please bear with me here. For 11 yrs I worked in the Social Services field investigating child abuse. During that time I cannot tell you how many times I was threatened. One father who had lost his children due to physical abuse threatened me and I was not particularly concerned in that he lived out of state. I learned that threats are in fact real and should not be taken lightly. That father was arrested in the lobby of the building where I worked and found to have a shotgun in his car. So, am I wrong to consider that a threat? Am I jumping to illogical conclusions, after all, if someone was really after me, he wouldn't have told me so right? I am of the opinion that a threat is a threat is a threat at least to whom it is directed. I find it incredibly insensitive to suggest that anyone should take death threats lightly. No, in answer to your post, no one directly called him a wimp; in fact, it was pointed out that KUH was not necessarily even the reason for the post. Since so many seem big on quoting, here is the one that I interpreted to mean 'wimp':

"My thinking is that to get your skivvies in a knot simply because someone said they're going to kill someone is simply assinine and over-reaction. I also agree with Crank on the idea that a serious whacko isn't going to warn you that they're coming after you. They'd just do it."

A whole lot of things make us who we are. Our judgments and assumptions are decided based on our own personal history. Just because someone throws around terms like 'I'd like to kill so and so', doesn't mean the rest of us do as well. What seems ludicrous and out of proportion to some, seem very real to others and to make light of that or dismiss those feelings is reprehensible.


08-28-02 09:51 AM  
rubbernecker Carla--

I can't speak for anyone else, but I think hard evidence of the death threat is important for several reasons:

1. Many people (myself included) believe that certain people involved with RCH are exceedingly melodramatic. If complaining about BFC practices gets inflated to terrorism, then perhaps a vague or unserious remark was inflated to "death threat."

2. This alleged death threat and the subsequent alleged involvement of law enforcement and prosecutors is, in my opinion, a driving force in getting the good people at the RCH to assist YKW and YKW2 with their evidence collection drive.

3. The evidence collection drive (damages reports) will in turn be used to launch lawsuits against innocent people who never wanted to be a part of this mess. Lawsuits are horrible things, causing financial and emotional strain.

I have no first hand knowledge, but I believe that something was posted that was taken as a death threat though it almost certainly was not intended as a serious threat. I'm very skeptical of involvement by the authorities, "big surprises in store," or anything beyond that.

If people are cooperating with YKW2's effort to disrupt the lives of innocent people because they believe they need to fight back against the "haters" who make death threats, then the death threat is important. Unless better evidence is produced, I cannot help but assume that YKW2 is lying in an effort to enlist assistance for his petty revenge fantasy.
08-28-02 09:53 AM  
phamton I think death threats should be taken seriously. There were some emails to Santana students after the shootings in their school and also to students at Columbine. These emails were along the lines of "We're going to start another blood bath at your school" "Don't go to school on Friday" etc. These emails were not from students who even lived in that area. They were teens pranksters who had no intention of carrying out any shootings. Several of them were arrested because of the emails and charged and convicted. It was a joke but still very, very wrong.

We have had students call in bomb threats simply to get out of taking a test in high school here. They were arrested. I think threats should be taken seriously and be given its day in court. As far as joking about killing someone, if both parties know it is a joke, then neither would be compelled to report it as a crime.

If KUH was threatened (which I accept after hearing from Kim), then it should be followed up by law enforcement.

Bev Hamilton
08-28-02 10:05 AM  
rubbernecker I once received an e-mail from a stranger ranting about my negative review of a Chow Yun Fat movie and ending with, "If I ever see you on the street I will shoot you in the head." Doesn't get much more explicit than that.

Still, I didn't worry about it and I didn't even believe the person would actually shoot me if given the chance. Context is everything. The fact that KUH was harassed offline makes a difference, but the actual words of the threat matter. So does hard evidence of law enforcement involvement.

It's clear that online death threats, even if hoaxes, are illegal. Why no arrests? Why does the person go free for so long? YKW2 would have you believe that they've set up a sting operation, and anyone who says anything bad about them is being monitored by the FBI and will soon be arrested. I don't believe it. I want proof.
08-28-02 10:10 AM  
Lunarlady
quote:
Carla0030 wrote:
Since so many seem big on quoting, here is the one that I interpreted to mean 'wimp':

"My thinking is that to get your skivvies in a knot simply because someone said they're going to kill someone is simply assinine and over-reaction. I also agree with Crank on the idea that a serious whacko isn't going to warn you that they're coming after you. They'd just do it."

A whole lot of things make us who we are. Our judgments and assumptions are decided based on our own personal history. Just because someone throws around terms like 'I'd like to kill so and so', doesn't mean the rest of us do as well. What seems ludicrous and out of proportion to some, seem very real to others and to make light of that or dismiss those feelings is reprehensible.



I am the one that made that quote, therefore I acknowledge your opinion that my opinion is reprehensible. Given your past experience with real life situations, I can understand why you would take death threats from disgruntled and angry people that you meet during the course of your job seriously.

I still stand by my opinion that if I were to take seriously death threats made to me by some stranger on the internet, then I'd be acting in a melodramatic and self-absorbed manner. (Thanks for the word, rubbernecker. I was looking for a word that fit the situation and that's it:D)

What makes me different from others is that I'm not going to threaten to take you to court for "hating" me and publishing "libelous and slanderous" remarks about my opinion, nor am I going to try to rally my co-horts on this and other boards stating that I have been deeply wounded and irreperably harmed by your opinion that my opinion is reprehensible.

I am an adult. The cost of my freedom to have an opinion that may seem ill-bred or politically incorrect is that I might have to listen to others telling me they think I'm wrong.

I am an adult. I can handle it. If I couldn't, I wouldn't be out here in cyberspace.

**edited to thank Rubbernecker for a term**
[Edited by Lunarlady]
08-28-02 10:20 AM  
judy
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phamton wrote:

If KUH was threatened (which I accept after hearing from Kim), then it should be followed up by law enforcement.

Bev Hamilton



SURE - take it seriously - as in tracking down the PERSON who made the threat. Somebody said that has been done. If it was a post on aother forum, it was typed and submitted by an individual. not by a GROUP of "haters" or "vigilantees" or "hactivist" or even "cyber-terrorists" (I love that one).
The thing is that a whole group, or a number of groups, are all being painted with the same brush. HOw does a death threat made by one person justify the "damages report" where people are being asked to search newsgroups for opinions and log them as crimes?
Let's look at it this way:
I express an opinion.
Another person reads my opinion, agrees with it, and decides to threaten someone.
*I* didn't commit any crime.
Unless my opinion was of the nature of stating that someone needed to be killed, I can't be held acountable for making or "inciting" a threat.
This is what is being done - a whole group of people are being harassed, called criminals, and others are told to find evidence of their crimes - based on a threat that has been traced to someone else already!
I think we all know who the label "cyber -terrorist" applies to.
08-28-02 10:31 AM  
phamton Judy said
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Unless my opinion was of the nature of stating that someone needed to be killed, I can't be held acountable for making or "inciting" a threat. This is what is being done - a whole group of people are being harassed, called criminals, and others are told to find evidence of their crimes - based on a threat that has been traced to someone else already!


Thanks, Judy, I totally agree.

Bev
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